The path is steep. The currents are incomparable. The roads are filled with potholes, and if you aren’t careful….you’ll go for a spin. The journey to the top is tedious, and often lonely. But, it’s a beautiful view.

Two of the most basic things that you can do to set yourself up for lifelong abundance is to:

  1. Become a vibrational match for it.
  2. Live your life as if you’re already abundant.
  3. Express gratitude.


“Sit with winners, the conversation is different.”

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If you aren’t at the table, you’re on the menu.

Becoming a vibrational match for the life you desire is as simple as aligning yourself with the traits of what you seek. For example, if you’re seeking wealth you want to surround yourself with people who are wealthy. The conversation is different. Gossip constitutes about 90% of the human conversation, and I personally like to believe that the other 10% is made up of millionaires who discuss wealth and winning.  The fashion in which you attract abundance also relies heavily on your beliefs and patterns. Do you truly believe that you deserve abundance? What do your actions show? The bulk of us grew up watching our parents struggle at certain times and/or living paycheck to paycheck. They didn’t have elbow room and had to make money stretch over an extended period of time. If this was your childhood, it’s very likely that you’ve been conditioned to believe you were only born to pay bills and die. It can be very difficult and scary to operate outside of your “norm”.

“Your beliefs become your thoughts, Your thoughts become your words, Your words become your actions, Your actions become your habits, Your habits become your values, Your values become your destiny.”

As you can imagine, your chances of attracting wealth and abundance are a great slim to none if you continue to practice the thought pattern that you’re only here to survive. That could not be further from the truth. You are here to flourish and live limitless. In order to attract abundance, you have to unlearn and relearn. It’s as simple as believing that you deserve it. Remember that we do not CREATE abundance. Abundance is ever-present – we create limitations.


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I can not stress this enough! Acting the part is also a slice of becoming a vibrational match. The Law of Attraction says that what you put out is what you get back. Take a moment and reflect on your current state of mind. Check in with your emotions. What is your mental state at the moment? Are you worrying about never becoming wealthy? Are you putting yourself down because you aren’t as far in life as you envisioned yourself to be 20 years ago? Are you dressed for the occasion?

You can NOT attract abundance if you aren’t prematurely living as if you already have it. This doesn’t mean to go out and get five credit cards, and then go on a shopping spree. Living as if you already have wealth is a state of mind and self-love is one of the best practices for this.

  • Put yourself first. That nice pair of heels that you’ve been craving but never purchased because you didn’t have anywhere to wear them to? GET THEM. Let everything work itself out. Abundance looks a little like you buying those new heels and then getting a last-minute emergency call to attend that event that you’ve had your eyes on for quite some time.
  • Find something to do in each day that makes you feel abundant.It could be as simple as taking a day to get a mani and pedi. I know it doesn’t sound like a huge fantasy because most people find a way to squeeze it into their budget. However, if you look at it on a larger scale, a trip to the nail shop is a luxury that not everyone is afforded. Doing this attracts some form of abundance.

Visualize. Vizualize. Vizualize. How you see yourself is extreme! If you never take the time to sit and visualize yourself doing what you’re passionate about, good luck attracting it. It is pertinent that you see yourself doing something other than clocking into your 9-5 job each day. You cannot go on viewing your life through the same lens that you’ve always viewed it through. Switch perspectives and evolve on your old self. If your dream is to be a model, visualize yourself walking down the runway during NY Fashion Week. Practice your walk as you’re headed to the time clock to clock in/out for the day. Strike a pose when you pass by the mirror every day. Live your life in a way that reflects what you want, because the universe conspires to help the dreamer.


You always start with gratitude, and you always end with it. Be grateful for what you have. Be grateful for where you are. Be grateful for the setbacks, and be grateful for the comeback. When you project gratefulness, you attract abundance. Once your mindset shifts to you expressing gratitude for what you have in your life, you’re able to be trusted with more than your mind could ever fathom.

The easiest way to practice gratitude is to make positive affirmations a habit.

  • I am grateful for my life and everyone in it.
  • My life is filled with an abundance of goodness.
  • My gratitude is a magnet for manifestation.
  • Every situation in my life has a purpose for being.

Always seal your request with gratitude that it is already being fulfilled, and then own it. Talk as if you already have what is yours. Walk with the confidence that it takes to posses it. Reach for it as if it’s already tangible. Take a deep breath and inhale the smell of fresh money coming your way. Make sure that your choices always align with anything that you are seeking to gain, and you have no choice but to attract it. Remember that the choices you make are a reflection of you. Don’t be caught with your work undone. Take care of yourself and the universe will take care of you.

Godspeed to each of you on your new journey to abundance.

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